Tag: dating apps

You Don’t Have to Force Yourself Into A Relationship Just Because Everyone Is In It

As you all probably know, I’m the frequent user of online dating sites. It’s been a couple of years ever since I first signed up on some sites that I’m a member of.

My take on dating sites has been fluctuating too, as in at first I was super excited to meet some new people and hang out. And then only use it for the sake of hooking up, until nowadays I basically just have it to see what I can get from it.

To be fair, the only reason why I feel like I need to keep it is simply that I, at some point, hope that I will meet somebody soon through those sites. Someone that is good enough with whom I can get along, and maybe create a future together.

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Is It So Wrong to Find A Sugar Daddy to Fund Your Travel?

The idea of writing this article came when recently, I stumbled upon a thread on one of the female traveler groups that I’m a member of. The OP was a sex worker based in one of the states in Australia, and basically she asked whether there’s any other sex worker in the group. She wants to try some other opportunities outside her state but she wants to make sure that it’s safe, and more importantly, legal.

What’s surprising is the fact that the thread caused some backlash because some other girls actually called her out for being a whore. And that’s pretty sad.

The thing is, she made it pretty clear that she had no one to oppress her to do what she does. It was based on her consent yet some people still called her out.

Not so long after that, there’s another thread asking whether anyone has ever tried Miss Travel. And then some girls started to pass on the judgment about it being a lady escort’s place to find their customers. Basically, the place for ladies to travel for free just by spreading their legs.

So then I decided to create this post with the hope that maybe, people could see both sides of the story instead of calling people that you barely even know ‘slut’.

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Here’s My Two Cents, But I Don’t Think You Should Pay For a Dating Site!

Could you get the oxymoron part on the title of this post?!

Like I’m actually mentioning two cents, but then my suggestion is not to pay for something. I mean, isn’t it a genius?! #punintended

But anyway, my post today will be back to the dating scheme since I just realized that it’s been awhile since the last time I posted anything related to dating or any beau topic in general. Not gonna blame you though, it’s been months since the last time I went out for a date with some random strangers that I met through a free dating site.

In fact, it’s been awhile since the last time I checked some of dating site accounts that I’ve got on several platforms. But one thing that they’ve got in common: I don’t bother to pay extra for a dating site.

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4 Times When I Question Myself Whether I Am Actually Happy Being Single

Okay, so yesterday my sister went to spend her weekend for trekking and I was left home alone all night long.

The downside part of this event that I eventually felt a little lonely, even though I am one of those people who would find it glorious to have the apartment all by myself. And for exactly the same reason, came an idea to write this piece as in I want to talk about some times that make me question myself whether I actually am happy being single.

As you may already know, I often install and delete some dating apps on my phone only to reinstall it some time later because that’s how sucky my dating life has been in the past few years. Some date, it went alright while some others went pretty disappointing as well, but anyway…

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7 Types of Guys That I’ve Met While Trying to Date in My Late 20s

Back to (not-so) dating guru on this post!

Well, as you may probably know, I’ve got plenty of experiences in terms of dating, in which none of them worked to the point I’m still single until this very day.

I mean, I’ve never been out of the dating scene in the past few years, but then again that never comes up with a legit relationship. Some things just don’t work, or simply some people are just a no for me.

So, in this post I’m trying to sum up what some types of guys that I’ve met while trying to date in my late 20s. Both online or organically. Hmm.

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