Tag: dating apps

How To Cut Off Your Friend With Benefits (Without Any Hard Feeling)

I’ve been quite productive lately to the point that I feel like I’ve got a lot of things to write. Yeah, despite the fact that I haven’t completed my post for Borneo trip series. That, until I realized that it’s been a while since I wrote some rants on dating topic.

So, here’s the thing… One of the posts with the highest rank on Google is the one about fuck buddies. I’m not exactly proud of my accomplishment in this case, but now I realized what kind of post that triggers my potential out there. And for exactly the same reason, this time I’ll talk again about fuck buddies. Or friend with benefits, if you prefer.

Well, you might as well come with a new vocabulary as in flirtationship. But whatever, this time I’m going to share with you some tips on how to cut them off. And for the love of God, how to do it without any hard feeling.

Which could be hard, given the fact that sometimes you catch feeling somewhere. But anyway…

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Indonesian vs Singaporean Guys: What It’s Like to Date in This Part of the World When You’re Not A Crazy Rich Asian

Hello, strangers! 😀

Do you still remember Shi Hui from IreviewUread? Because if you don’t recall the name, then I’d suggest you check on a few collaborations that we’ve done such as on my monthly feature Around The World With The Beauties, as well as the weekly $10 series covering Singapore.

So, in case you don’t know, we went to Kranji Memorial Park together on my last trip to Singapore. We were supposed to create something together, but then again the hot weather in the city-state sort of killed the mood so we ended up doing nothing.

However, we keep in touch and voila, after some packed schedule due to Asian Games for me as well as some ‘experiments’ Shi Hui had with some Singaporean guys to answer the questions that we’ve got, finally the answer is here…

I swear to God it’s a perfect time as it’s finished not so long after Crazy Rich Asian released. We didn’t even know about the movie when we planned out this collab. 😉

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You Don’t Have to Force Yourself Into A Relationship Just Because Everyone Is In It

As you all probably know, I’m the frequent user of online dating sites. It’s been a couple of years ever since I first signed up on some sites that I’m a member of.

My take on dating sites has been fluctuating too, as in at first I was super excited to meet some new people and hang out. And then only use it for the sake of hooking up, until nowadays I basically just have it to see what I can get from it.

To be fair, the only reason why I feel like I need to keep it is simply that I, at some point, hope that I will meet somebody soon through those sites. Someone that is good enough with whom I can get along, and maybe create a future together.

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