It’s so hard to be a horny Indonesian woman.
I mean, throughout my life I get judged way too many times. Back when I was a teenager and I didn’t show any interests to any guys, one of my friends asked me whether I was lesbian.
Nowadays, when I’m 29 and open to any sex talk because I’m sexually active (well, sort of!), some people start eyeing me and calling me names. I’m totally okay with them calling me names, because I’m too old to get offended by snowflakes.
What I am not okay is someone who would play a ‘nice guy’ and tell me to ‘have some respect for myself.”