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Matt and Tilbe of Lagoon With A View: From A Small Town To The Big World!

Valentine’s day is coming up, guys… What’s your upcoming plan for the day? Are you planning to have a fancy dinner in some expensive restaurant, or even propose your girlfriend somewhere? Or are you going to spend your Valentine’s alone like I am?

Anyway, now that you’ve probably read the story from Jareena and Ari, still in The Wander Lover Series: February, I’ve got another couple travelers to cover this time!

So, let me introduce you all to Matt and Tilbe from Lagoon With A View!

Been together for 12 years ever since they were 16, they are currently in the 3rd month of their 18-month round-the-world trip. In the meantime, they also share their story on their personal blog for you to refer. Be it as someone who’s planning to go to some destinations they’ve been, or as a couple who’s planning to travel together. 🙂

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Stop Calling Me A Whore… Or Don’t Stop At All.

It’s so hard to be a horny Indonesian woman.

I mean, throughout my life I get judged way too many times. Back when I was a teenager and I didn’t show any interests to any guys, one of my friends asked me whether I was lesbian.

Nowadays, when I’m 29 and open to any sex talk because I’m sexually active (well, sort of!), some people start eyeing me and calling me names. I’m totally okay with them calling me names, because I’m too old to get offended by snowflakes.

What I am not okay is someone who would play a ‘nice guy’ and tell me to ‘have some respect for myself.”

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Thou Shalt Not Followeth Thy Fuck Buddy On Social Media. Here’s Why!

I’ve never been the kind of person who would accept everyone’s friend request on Facebook. Let alone some random strangers who add me on Facebook, sometimes I even avoid being friends with some guys from work.

I like to keep my privacy so much in a way that sometimes my friends who added me on Facebook had to follow up in order for me to accept their request. I’ve got nothing to hide on my Facebook account, but I also don’t want some random people to know what kind of memes that I like, what issues that I care about and all that.

So then whenever I meet someone new either organically or through dating apps, despite the fact that I’m quite (if not very) active on my Facebook and any other social media account like Instagram etc, I never really wanted to connect with any of them through social media.

That’s why I made a big deal out of some random guy I slept with who suddenly messaged me on Facebook after like 1.5 years.

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