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4 Times When I Question Myself Whether I Am Actually Happy Being Single

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Okay, so yesterday my sister went to spend her weekend for trekking and I was left home alone all night long.

The downside part of this event that I eventually felt a little lonely, even though I am one of those people who would find it glorious to have the apartment all by myself. And for exactly the same reason, came an idea to write this piece as in I want to talk about some times that make me question myself whether I actually am happy being single.

As you may already know, I often install and delete some dating apps on my phone only to reinstall it some time later because that’s how sucky my dating life has been in the past few years. Some date, it went alright while some others went pretty disappointing as well, but anyway…

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Thou Shalt Not Followeth Thy Fuck Buddy On Social Media. Here’s Why!

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I’ve never been the kind of person who would accept everyone’s friend request on Facebook. Let alone some random strangers who add me on Facebook, sometimes I even avoid being friends with some guys from work.

I like to keep my privacy so much in a way that sometimes my friends who added me on Facebook had to follow up in order for me to accept their request. I’ve got nothing to hide on my Facebook account, but I also don’t want some random people to know what kind of memes that I like, what issues that I care about and all that.

So then whenever I meet someone new either organically or through dating apps, despite the fact that I’m quite (if not very) active on my Facebook and any other social media account like Instagram etc, I never really wanted to connect with any of them through social media.

That’s why I made a big deal out of some random guy I slept with who suddenly messaged me on Facebook after like 1.5 years.

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5 Messages On Online Dating Site That I Wouldn’t Bother To Reply (And 4 Others That Might Hook Us Up)

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It’s been awhile since the last time I got laid checked my online dating site account, so recently I checked it out just to see some unread message and I was surprised for how many messages that I haven’t opened there. But I was even more surprised on how many messages were pretty much the same, and I didn’t want to bother to even reply.

Normally, in this kind of situation I would just decide to deactivate my online dating site account. That’s what I do all the time, in the past 3 years.

Here’s the story… I created an account, and then hooked up with some guys I met through the site. And then I got bored, decided to have some kind of periodical celibacy so I deactivated it. I lost contact with the guys so I had to find some people to waste my time with through the texts, so then I’d get back on the dating site. The story goes on and on like that.

But then again, despite you probably think that I’m so easy to please and find guys to fool around through dating sites, I’m actually not that easy to impress through text messages on online dating site.

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