Category: personal

Stop Calling Me A Whore… Or Don’t Stop At All.

It’s so hard to be a horny Indonesian woman.

I mean, throughout my life I get judged way too many times. Back when I was a teenager and I didn’t show any interests to any guys, one of my friends asked me whether I was lesbian.

Nowadays, when I’m 29 and open to any sex talk because I’m sexually active (well, sort of!), some people start eyeing me and calling me names. I’m totally okay with them calling me names, because I’m too old to get offended by snowflakes.

What I am not okay is someone who would play a ‘nice guy’ and tell me to ‘have some respect for myself.”

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8 Country Songs To Listen To Whenever You Travel

Recently, I was on this thread where someone posted this question: “So what animal can we ethically ride?” only for me to scroll the answer that is varied.

No kidding, from the generic answer like domestic animals like horse, donkey or camel to some PETA activists who strictly prohibit anyone from riding any kind of animal.

That, until I got to this classy answer: “Save animals, ride a cowboy.” Attagirl! 😉

You see, this is where I got the idea to write this piece. And nope, this time I’m not gonna write anything about getting laid, especially not with a cowboy!

But the idea of cowboy reminds me of country songs. I know I could come across as sassy and crazy for some people, but as cheesy as it sounds, I listen to country music. In fact, most of the songs on my playlist are country so yeah…

Whenever I travel, I get attached to my headset every time. And more often than not, you’ll find me too busy listening to country songs on my way to wherever I aim for. So here, I want to share with you the country songs for you to listen to when you’re on the road.

Why country songs, you say? Well, because country songs have this magic to make your dark, little heart get back into emotions all over again. 😛

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6 Popular Tourist Destinations That I Am Not (Yet) Interested To Visit

If you could go anywhere right now for vacation, where would you go?

I’m sure all of you have your own bucket list. And perhaps, one of the places on your list would be the generic tourist destination like London or Paris. Sure, maybe some other places like New York or Bali? What do you have on your bucket list?

Now, back to your bucket list again… Do you have some places that people seem to attract to, but you’re simply not interested to visit it, at least not today?

Well, that’s what has inspired me to write this post. There are some cities in the world that seem so popular for tourists slash travelers no matter how you tell the difference between the two. But then some just don’t interest me.

At least, I could say not today as whenever I travel, I have to pay everything on my own so maybe costs play a huge role in my opinion. So, what are they?

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