Category: beau

12 Couple Travelers Who Spark Joy To Your Traveling Plan With Your Partner

Happy Valentine’s Day, folks! πŸ˜€

If I usually spent Valentine’s day alone, being single and miserable, then this year it’s different. Well, technically I’m not single but then again I’d still spend my Valentine’s day alone since my boyfriend is in Singapore.

But then again, let me throw some mushy stuff to you in case you feel miserable just because you’re far away from your partner on this Valentine’s day: 14 February doesn’t really matter when you’re with the right partner. Why? Because you don’t need a special day to celebrate love. You could always celebrate love everyday. Or hate, for that matter. πŸ˜›

I mean, we agree that as much as you love your partner, there is some stuff about them that makes you want to rip their neck sometimes.

Anyway, since I’ve just jumped into the bandwagon to plan out a vacation with my boyfriend… I’m checking out some other couple travelers to get some inspo about traveling with my partner. And I decided to list the 12 of my favorites on the day of love. Yeay!

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What Do You See Yourself in 5 Years?

This is such a typical question that a potential employer may ask in most companies based in Indonesia. Like, it’s so common that I can’t remember a job interview that leaves this question alone.

Speaking of the question, I remember 10 years ago when I turned 20, I made some crappy note on Facebook talking about some expectation that I had in 5 years. Some have turned into reality, when some other let’s just say we got buried it into the ground. πŸ˜›

And well, it’s already Aquarius season lately and if there’s anything that you need to know,Β then it is the fact that I’m counting down the days to the day I turn 30. I figure, maybe I should make a post like 10 years ago: some scrap about how I want to see myself in 5 years.

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7 Songs That I’m Going to Play on My Wedding Day

I’m a hopeless romantic.

No matter how much I claim myself as a strong and independent woman who doesn’t need any man in my life, I still have a small dream about marrying the love of my life at some point in my life. I’m a bit surprised how I’m still single when I’m almost 30 when really I thought I’d be married by 11-12-13.

11th of December 2013, 5 years have passed and I’m still here. Single as fuck. RIP Expectation.

You know what’s the sad part about not throwing my own wedding party? Not having my wedding songs played.

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My Hope for 2019

It’s only a few days to 2019, can you freaking believe it?

It feels like it was yesterday that I graduated from college in 2011. And it’s been pudding 8 years ever since. And no, you didn’t read it wrong. I’ve changed f*cking to pudding for decoration. πŸ˜›

You’ve probably read my post on some things that I’ve learned in 2018 already. Well, normally I’d post some kind of resolution that I would never accomplish later at the end of the year. But I think not this time.

I think I’ll speak broadly about what I hope for next year, because honestly… As I’m turning 30 next year, I think I’m old enough to eventually understand that resolution is somewhat just an illusion. At least most times of my life when I had one. #failed

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5 Deal Breakers When We Talk (Despite The Fact That We’re Not Exactly In A Relationship)

So, after a few months thinking that I got my OKCupid account blocked, it turned out I just forgot the e-mail address that I used for the account. Silly me, I know… But now that I found out, I recently get active on the dating site. Again.

Same old, same old. Somebody, please rescue me from this shenanigan! *lol*

But anyway, as I wrote on my profile there, I’m at that point where I’m getting tired of being alone but darn it, I just don’t seem to be able to handle anyone along the way. It’s complicated.

From being a serial dater myself, I decided to write 5 deal breakers when I start to talk with someone, despite the fact that we’re not (yet) in a relationship. I’m writing this, in a hope that my future better half would eventually read it and reflect.

Yeah, good luck with that. πŸ˜›

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